My answer is NO!
There are many things that make for a good marriage. Marriage is a work, an investment you don't give up and a ministry you must hold tight!
It takes a whole lot of sacrifices, great commitment and many more to keep a marriage.

Being a virgin is a good virtue which portrays you as a self-disciplined, determined, God-fearing, decent and possibly a faithful spouse. Being a virgin is not enough; It is the fruits of the spirit that beautifies a virgin, If you are a virgin and you lack good & Godly character then you are not yet made for a good marriage. It is a great honour if you can sacrifice an ungodly relationship and the fun/pleasure that incur the wrath of God through fornication.

From the revelation I had years ago, there are 2 types of virgins: IMPURE & PURE.
Impure virgins are the ones who are involved in MASTURBATION,ROMANCES, FOREPLAYS, ORAL SEX/ANAL SEX all in the name of keeping their virginity/ boyfriends. The pure virgins don't do such at all. Be either HOT or COLD! Don't be lukewarm. Don't sit on the fence!

Every saints has a past & every SINNER HAS A FUTURE.
I am not a saint but God chose me, kept me by His mercy. This is my ministry/calling and He gave me this assignment.
I was among the impure virgins some years back through ROMANCES AND FOREPLAY OF ALL SORTS until I encountered God in a new light.

I saw in a revelation, a plate of delicacy placed before me and there was SHIT all around the edge of the plate.
I wondered and asked, Lord how come? The delicious food with shit surrounding the tip of the plate?
He replied me: the food is good, delicious and inviting but there's a blemish therein, such are those who claim they are virgins yet engage in all sorts of filthiness. Be a virgin of purity!

I made a new commitment & re-dedicate my life to Christ.

It doesn't matter even if you have lost your pearl to the swine but please don't continue in it. You are still a virgin to Christ! If you accept Jesus as your lord and savior,you are His VIRGIN! He is the author of marriage;He will re-write your love story! HE'S ALL YOU NEED FOR A GOOD MARRIAGE. Run to Christ and make a new commitment 2 Him TODAY!
If your boyfriend/fiancée is not staying because of sex definitely he's not worthy of you! You don't owe your body to your boyfriend/fiancée but your husband. 
A real son of God will respects you, treats you as a queen, keep you like a treasure, takes you to the altar and not to his bed. 

Do you really think you can KEEP A MAN WITH SEX? Do you want to marry a lady that keeps BEGGING YOU 4 SEX? Wait till he/she finds another SEX MACHINE out there.

I am made to share this, God desires an INTIMATE relationship with you, your body is His temple so sweep the dirt, clean the shit and let the king of Glory come in. Your life is a delicacy meant for the King of kings and He's preparing you for a king/Queen.

Heb.10:26, Romans 12:1-2, 1 Cor.10:11, Rev. 3:20, Isaiah 54:8, 1 John 1:9, 2 Chr.7:14, 1 Thes.4:3-7, 1 Cor.6:13, 19-20


Prayer Against Evil Agenda


Two years ago, exactly 20th May 2013, we are on our way for my mother burial, just less than 40 kilometres when we too off, one of the cat got accident, and we are return back because the accident was a terrible one. Two people lost their lives in the accident, and the car was totally damage. The only two that survive in the car one got married last two weeks and one delivers her first baby yesterday.

Today Prayer Bombs is a message of its own which I believe is going to bury every evil agenda of the enemies against your life in Jesus name.

Read Psalm 35, 24 and 29 before you start these prayers bombs 

Prayer Bombs Are:

1. I declare that every agenda of the enemies planned against the success of your marital journey, business journey or academic and ministry journey is scatters by thunder of God in the name of Jesus

2.  Every pit that had been dogged for you by the enemies, all those that dogged it will fall to it and they shall not return no more in Jesus name 

3. Every hidden planned to cut Toye life short,to terminate your destiny, or to end the fulfilment of God promises in your ministry is scatter by fire and thunder of God 

4. Whis

1. Today i pray that every seed of marital failure in your life is hereby uprooted and destroy by fire in Jesus name.

2. The might hand of God will separate you from marriage distress and connect you with divine spouse in the name of Jesus.

3. The hand that open heaven unto Jesus when He was baptized in river Jordan shall open door of your divine favour, blessing and financial breakthrough unlimited in the name of Jesus.

4. The line of the enemies that use to hinder or stop you to move to your next level of promise fulfilment is cancelled and erased by the blood of Jesus.

5. Every load of marital failure put on you that make every girl or boy seen you as mad person is removed by the mighty hand of God in the name of Jesus



BIBLE READING: Corinthians 15:9-10
MEMORIZE: But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me (1Cor 15:10).
The word 'grace' was mentioned about 166 times in the Bible, and is a prominent word in Paul's life and writings. It is defined as the unmerited, undeserved favour of God. It is the gift of God to mankind; His infinite love, mercy, favour, and goodwill shown to mankind. It is a very common word in Paul's writings. Everything God did and still does for us in Christ is based on grace. Paul attributed his salvation and apostleship on God's grace.
How are we experiencing the grace? God's grace manifest itself in divine favour, enablement and blessings. Esther was favoured among her contemporaries to become a queen, even as a captive in a foreign land (Esther 2:9, 15, 17). Paul was empowered to do exploits through grace, even beyond those before him (Eph. 3:7-8).
Remember, the GRACE of God is there provisionally to do all things promotion, provision, healing, good family, etc., but all of these must be made REAL by the release of your FAITH in God.
We also have received countless blessings in Christ, by His grace (cf. John 1:14). Grace is given to us every day; faith is the response to this offer. Are you responding appropriately? Today and always, may His grace be yours continually, in Jesus' name.
1. O Lord God, may I not be condemned for Your grace I receive.
2. Lord, help us as believers to come to the throne of mercy for all things through faith.
3. Lord, help all believers to grow in grace and in knowledge, so as to expand Your kingdom on earth, in Jesus' name.


In the Control Room of Life

READ Psalm 91:1-10
Memorize: I will say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust." (Psalm 91:2).
Is today's passage a flight from reality? How will I no get disturbed about what becomes of my life in the midst of diseases, uncertain future, terrorist attacks, failure, etc.? In the language of the Bible, if we place worries and anxieties of life above the Giver of life, it is nothing but "idolatry". It is surrendering to problems. Wars, diseases, restlessness and instability filled the life and times of the psalmist, but he found out that his life was in the hands of the undefeatable God.
A story was told of a girl who slept in the ship and there was a storm. She woke up and went to the control room. There she found her father busy. She went back to sleep. She heard and saw the raging storm billowing against the survival of the ship. Ordinarily, such a young girl should have been afraid on such an occasion, but she reminded herself, "My father is in the control room. He can't allow me die in this storm. I will not be afraid of the stormy sea."
Look at the faith of that young girl in her father. Shouldn't yours be greater in your Father in heaven? God is always in the control room of your life. The future is never bleak, because He holds your life in His steady, stable, sustaining and supernatural hands. Why then should you fear? Of whom or what should you be afraid? None, nothing, of course.
Thielicke wrote in his book: "Life can begin again ... who really knows? We also need hunger and nakedness.... That we may lose our trust in our strength and learn to understand the blessing of empty hands and spiritual poverty." As you step out today, remember: God is in the control room of the entire universe, and specifically, your life and times. Recognize Jesus as the pillar that holds your life.
1. I know that I can make it /2x. No matter what may come my way, my life is in your hands. Turn that to prayer.
2. Pray that God will totally take control of our nation from all forces militating against His programme for the nation.
3. Pray that God should take charge of the control room of the hearts of our youths to stop the social vices and juvenile delinquencies.




Bible Reading: Genesis 2:18

There is no doubt in it that thousands of men and women find it difficult to get married at the right time. Many had been engage in courtship and remain to be wedded when the problem of be singleness arise and end the courtship. On daily basis, many sisters and brothers engage in mountain prayer, fasting and prayers but all their efforts to get married is unfruitful.

95% of people that are singleness are NOT desire to be in such situation but one reasons or the other contributed to their singleness. 


To be in singleness means
- To be alone
- Disappointed in marriage
- Result of failure in marriage
- Breaking of courtship
- State of being unmarried
- Lacking a partner or helpmate
- In-ability to hook with spouse
- Relating to celibacy
- Not fulfilling the purpose and plan of God for marriage 

There are several reasons why many women and men are SINGLENESS and unable to married at the right time or not married at all. Some of the reasons are stated below”

- Lack of vision and purpose of marriage – Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children”. Thousands are in state of singleness because they lack the purpose and reasons why God instituted marriage. They have NO vision of being marriage or having an happy home.

- The spirit of pride – many are single because they allow the spirit of pride to rule them. In most cases, they see themselves as holier and beauty than other. For this, they want the person that will marry them to be equal like them. Such people cannot get marry at the right time and if care is not taking, they can remain single for long.

- Parent Idealism- some parents is the reasons why their children remain singles. They are selective for their children mostly the females one. A situation where a mother is telling or instruct her daughter that, if you don’t bring a wealthy man to this house to marry is better to remain singleness.

- See worldly enjoyment as the best – some ladies are engage in education mentality, instead to marry at the right they are pursuing education degree to extend they forget to marry at the right time. Sometimes, most of these ladies are approached by men but they did not response to their invitation. Rather, they insist in get to some certain level in education before they will answer any man. As a result, when they ready for marriage, the men see them as person higher than them.

- Transfer of generational curses. Many are experience and suffering under the curses of their Grand-parents. Such parents are experience singleness and thereby the curses had been transferred to their followers. 

- Advises from the wrong counselors. Thousands of sisters and brothers are still singleness because they have been misleading by their false pastors or fake prophets. They desire to know the right way in marriage, but they end up in the hands of fake prophets. I have seen a situation where a sister go for counseling from a prophet, and the prophet misled her that the person she brought his name to him for prayer is not a right person for her to marry. By this, she should wait for her time, but for good 12 years now, her time has NOT come.

- Failure to face the reality and challenges of marriage

- Comparison and wrong association – Many are single because they are in group of singles. It is their group manifesto to remain un-married for life. Bad association corrupt good characters says this Scripture – 1 Corinthians 15:33

- Lack of implementing the Biblical principles of marriage – many see biblical principles of marriage as unbearable. Instead to build their marital issues on these principles they prefer to reject the offer of been marry.

- Personal will orientation. Many desire to fulfill their will or wish than the will of God or desire of God for them. They see God’s will as a long way, so they want to follow short way which is their will, but at the end of it, they end up singleness. No wonder, the Bible says,¨”There is a way seem right before man, but the end is destruction” Proverbs 14:12

- See singleness as usual and common things

- Laziness in spiritual solution – fasting and prayer is no longer a business for many sisters and brothers; they see prayer and fasting as waste of time and olden days strategies for believers to get something. 

- Contentious – Proverbs 21:19

- Love of money and love of work – Many sisters are singleness till today because they only focus all their life in making money and doing their daily business, they did not have time to plan for marriage. They believe that to get money is more and far better than to get married. They forget that, any money they have is useless without husband. The Bible says: 

“The love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many grief” ” 1 Timothy 6:10 NIV

“For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows” 1Timothy 6:10 KJV.

Eager and greediness for money have made many to go away from the truth of the lay down principles of marriage and they are singleness. Remember, no man can serve two masters, he must be profit by one and profitless by the other. 

- Education mentality – many remain singleness because they are looking for a man or woman that has attain certain levels of education. I have seen a sister that said she will not marry any man that has no master degree; instead to marry such, she determined to remain single. Some sister also have determined that they will not get marry until they hold a certain level of degree like doctorate, Ph.D. etc. pursuing this have keeping them in singleness. By the time they ready for marriage, no man is ready to marry them because of their position.

- Satanic influences. One major area that Satan and his agents focus to win more souls to his kingdom is area of marriage. Most of the problems facing sister and brothers on singleness are satanic influences. And he has gain control over thousands of men and women. Devil and his agents are working 24/7 to keep many in singleness situation as long as they live. May God deliver you from such in Jesus name.

- Born again experience – Not negotiable

- Readiness and determination to get married

- See your singleness as a challenge that you must overcome

- Build a glorious future for marriage – Proverbs 14:1

- Diligently seek for right spouse – Genesis 24:2-10, Corinthians 6:14, Corinthians 7:39

- Declare total war against anti-marriage conspiracy. The Bible says: “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil” Ephesians 6:10-11

- Total obedience to the last commands. Ready and be ready to obey the instructions from God at any given time. The more you obeying the word of God the more you enjoying Him.

1. My God and My father, let frustration and disappointment, be the portion of every object fashioned against my marital issues in the name of Jesus.

2. In the mighty name of Jesus, My God and my father, let every tie to 
polluted objects and items between me and strange husband break, in the name of Jesus.

3. My God and My Father, I command every spoken curse against marital life be break, in the name of Jesus.

4. My God and My Father, I command every curse pronounced inwardly against my destiny and marriage be break, in the name of Jesus.

5. My God and My Father, I command you inward curses, militating against my virtues and marriage be break, in the name of Jesus.

6. My God and My Father, I command any power given the mandate to curse and hinder my wedding day, summersault and die, in the name of Jesus.

7. My God and My Father, I command every spirit of Balaam hired to curse my marriage, fall down and die, in the name of Jesus.

8. My God and My Father, I command every curse that I have brought into marital issues through ignorance and disobedience, break by fire, in the name of Jesus.

9. My God and My Father, I command every power magnetizing physical and spiritual curses to me, I raise the blood of Jesus against you and I challenge you by fire, in the name of Jesus.

10. My Father, and My Lord, turns all my self-imposed curses to blessings, in the name of Jesus.

11. The power of darkness that caused men to divorce me, God let your light clear it away in Jesus name

12. Any strategies that devil is using to keep my husband or wife away from me, the thunder of God scatter it in Jesus name 

13. Where ever the attackers tie my husband or wife, I lose him/her with the power in the Blood of Jesus with thunder in the name of Jesus.

14. Whosoever or anything that hold my destiny wife/husband captivity in order for me to remain single, the thunder and fire of God will visit such person/power and lose my wife/husband for me in the name of Jesus.

15. My God my Lord, visit the tap root of the cause of failure and disappointment that have been experiences, and uproot it in Jesus name

16. My husband/wife, where ever you are now, come back to your senses and locates me for marriage in the name of Jesus.

17. I wash away every evil marks that divert men/women away from me with the BLOOD of Jesus Christ.

 18. Any power or spirit that is pushing men and women away from me, such power and spirit receive the thunder of God in the name of Jesus.




Hello Brethren, there is no doubt that GOD can do more than this for and to you before end of this month and this year. There are several miracles that GOD has for you this month. No matter what is your condition. No matter how long you have been waiting for great Miracle that will shake your environment and the word at large. GOD is more than enough to do it for you, because, WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE - Luke 1:37 and "ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE TO HIM THAT BELIEVE" Mark 9:23  

If you can BELIEVE that JESUS can do it for you, surely you will get more than this miracle. 

I declare that, the anointing and grace to get more than this miracle, receive it in the name of JESUS. 

Before this month ending, the MIRACLE that will shake your family, city, nation and entire world will happen in your life, ministry, marriage, business, work, job, academic and family in Jesus name, amen.

The uncommnon Miracle that nobody will take away from you is releasing unto you by great God today in the name of Jesus




Bible Reading: 

Deut. 28:13: And the Lord shall make thee the head, and not the tail; and thou shalt be above only, and thou shalt not be beneath; if that thou hearken unto the commandments of the Lord thy God, which I command thee this day, to observe and to do them:


1. Holy spirit, do the work of deliverance in my life today, in the name of Jesus.

2. Every evil spirit, assigned against me, disappear by fire, in the name of Jesus.

3. Blood of Jesus, remove every curse in my life, in the name of Jesus.

4. Holy Spirit, connect me with great men of this world, in the name of Jesus.

5. Fire of God; explode in my life, in the name of Jesus.

6. Every sickness in my life, die, in the name of Jesus.

7. Anointing for prosperity, fall upon me now, in the name Jesus.

8. Anointing for revival, explode in my life and ministry, in the name of Jesus.

9. Every demonic authority in this vicinity be crippled and silenced, in the name of Jesus.

10. O Lord, let the heaven open upon me now, in the name of Jesus.

11. Every power, working against my prosperity, fall down and die, in the name of Jesus.

12. Every power, that wants to deny me of my destiny, roast in the name of Jesus.

13. It is written concerning me, that I will divide the spoil of the land with the great and mighty and it shall be so, in the name the name of Jesus.

14. I prophesy that I will take my position among the rulers of this world, in Jesus name.

15. Holy Spirit, you are my passport, I have come to the treasured city, but it is walled against me; Lord, wave to me to come in, in the name of Jesus.

16. Every power, that wouldn’t allow me to reach my potential, roast, in the name of Jesus.

17. Power of redemption, locate me, in the name of Jesus.

18. Oh Lord my God, connect me with my glory, in the name of Jesus.

19. Holy Spirit, arrest any power that wants to deny me of my glory, in the name of Jesus.

20. Oh heaven, fight for me against powers sitting on my glory, in the name of Jesus.

21. Any satanic agent, using evil horn to torment my life, be tormented, in Jesus name.

22. O Lord, let the horn of the wicked be cut off, in the name of Jesus.

23. Every satanic horn, speaking against my greatness, be silenced, in the name of Jesus.


One thing is common in this life, what that has beginning must has end. And every human beings has one problem or the other, and such problem or challenges has end and expire date. Today is the last day of this month, and once today gone, no one can see this month again even forever, this month of April that one can see next year will be different because what will happen there will be different from what happened in this year April. Moreover, the days, hours and minutes may be the same but what occur or happens will be different totally.
As today is the last and expire day for this month, so also God has destined today to be the last existence of any forms of problems or challenges that have been war against your life, marriage, business, academic, success, job, work, ministry, family, etc. No matter where the problems come from, no matter how long you have been in that sickness, no matter how struggle or many ways you have tried to overcome such epidemic or situation, God ordained and approved today as the last day to your challenges or problems.
You are only required to believe, accept and hold unto Jesus Christ the only one that can expire and end all human problems - Matthew 11:28-30, John 10:10.

As today is the end of this month of April, and no one can see it forever, I declare by the authority in the name of Jesus Christ that:
1. Every gathering against your next financial breakthrough are hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus
2. Every antagonist against your next promotion is hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus
3. Every power that designed to stop you from achieving the next uncommon testimony is hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus
4. Every hands that send to stop you from receiving the next contract, success, job, work and appointment is hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus
5. All the blockage that assigned to hinder you to the next promotion and upliftment is hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus
6. Your uncommon testimony is started today and nothing can stop it forever in the name of Jesus
7. Divine open door of every possibility is here by open to you in the name of Jesus
8. Every causes of setback, failure and barrenness in your life, academic, business, job, finances, ministry, marriage and family is hereby expire and die today in the name of Jesus


First Day of The Month Prayers

1. Let the fire of my enemies devour them this month in the name of Jesus.

2. Anointing to prosper under any condition, locate me this month in the name of Jesus.

3. O LORD, let my season of greatness appear this month in the name of Jesus.

4. Let the heavenly surgeon replace every broken organ in my body with the spare part from heaven this month in the name of Jesus.

5. O Lord, let my life advertise your glory this month in Jesus name.

6. Every hidden enemy in my family line, be exposed by fire in the name of Jesus.

7. I close the door of tragedy and calamity against me and my family this month in Jesus name.

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